What experiences would you like to know about? Mine are intelligent, personable, active fish. They know the difference between different people. When I walk into the fish room (I'm the predominant feeder), they get excited, come to the front of the tank to greet me, and follow my progress around the room, even when it isn't feeding time. When my wife comes into the room, they mostly ignore her and go about their business, unless she goes near the cabinet where the food is kept. When strangers or guests come into the room, they retreat to a corner of the tank behind a large rock formation and peek out around the edges of the rock, but usually won't come out unless I offer food. Very fun fish.