jetajockey
come get me tang police!
Just tell her you want it and you are planning to get it. Spend your money and get it. You aren't married yet, and if she has some huge issue with you getting something that you want, then just imagine what it'll be like after you get married.
If its shared money, then she has every right to make it a joint venture, so if she says no, then you'll have to go back to the drawing board.
If she has a valid reason why you shouldn't, like, if the cost isn't feasible at the moment, or something, then you'll have to accept that. Whatever you do, even if you disagree with her response, you need to have respect for it, whether it changes your plan or not.
If its shared money, then she has every right to make it a joint venture, so if she says no, then you'll have to go back to the drawing board.
If she has a valid reason why you shouldn't, like, if the cost isn't feasible at the moment, or something, then you'll have to accept that. Whatever you do, even if you disagree with her response, you need to have respect for it, whether it changes your plan or not.