Yes there return policy is aweful. I got mad at them and said look, you didn't even tell me the correct name of the Anemone and all that, and they still would not take it back. I went to my regular store and asked them if it was in fact on deaths door, the woman said she thought it looked fine and plump, and she has been an aquarium hobbiest for over 18 years. She even has a sebae Anemone. It is in fact, dyed.. She told me they could not give me credit or anything, but she thinks I can pull it off with my equipment and everything, she says its risky but worth a shot since I paid for it, and if it starts looking sickly, she told me the signs, then she would put him in one of their tanks. I would just give it to them immediately but I talked to her for a while and she suggested I try. We'll see what happens..