My grandfather used to breed oscars, and there is no way to tell the sexes from appearance. TNB is correct.... very large tank (talking 200+ gallons) with a school of about 6-8 young oscars, and it will be apparent at apprx 8-10 months of age when two of them pair up & begin defending one end of the tank. Then it's time to re-locate the others.....immediately. Meaning you will need either more large tanks, friends who are willing to take them, or LFS's willing to take them off your hands. It can be up to 2-3 years before you get eggs, though the female may begin digging as young as 10 months for "practice".
It's a very rewarding experience, but it's something you really need to be dedicated to for the love of it, not just for making money.... as messy as Oscars are, if you break down all the time it takes for the maintenance & care, the return is pennies/hour.