bubba update
At some point I would recommend switching to sand, it's better looking, certainly easier to maintain, and the RD would love digging as well.
Thanks for the suggestion, I'd really like to, but at this point is seems like a major hassle, and something I'm definitely going to have to put off for the future, but possibly some day! Plus I really like the natural large rocks, they look better than the typical small gravel that you get...
Anyways here's a small update on what's going on with bubba...
I did a very THOROUGH cleaning of the tank... i did about a 60% water change, and I switched the bad filter that wasnt doing that great of a job, i put on an aquaclear 70 on bubbas tank that i took off my mbuna tank, this was swapped with a biowheel 200 which is only rated for 30-50 gallon i think, and the aquaclear 70 is up to a 70 gallon tank and does a much nicer job....
i found a trick for vacuuming the gravel since bubba likes to bite my fingers at every chance he gets lol... instead of vacuuming from the beginning and distracting him with a algae magnet, i wait until the water is about 40% emptied then i start vacuuming, this lowers the water level and lets me push down on the siphon without exposing my hands under water, i wish i thought of that to begin with...
the problem was ever since i got him he just wasnt eating anything i put in the tank, and a lot of food has sunkin to the bottom since i got him which i havnt been vaccuuming up... but i did a thorough vaccuum and water change and put a 2x better filter on... and the tank looks really nice and clear now... and he seems happier, his color slightly improved, it was getting whitish probably due to stress and water conditions, but it improved... almost ALL of the "planaria" was removed... and GET THIS! when i switched the biowheel 200 filter from bubbas tank to the mbuna tank, a lot of the planaria was still trapped in that filter, so as soon as the filter started, there was a good ammount of planaria that escaped into the mbuna tank, and you should of seen those malawi cichlids devour them! it was really fun to watch, i felt good afterwards, like i cleaned them up, theres not a trace of them anymore in the mbuna tank and theres barely any left in bubbas tank, and im sure they will all be gone by tomorrow since ive only had the aquaclear 70 running for an hour and a half so far and bubbas tank looks greatly improved. i plan on doing another 50% water change within the week just to lower the nitrates even further...
but back to his eating
im not going to spoil him anymore with worms or crickets, im going to go back to starving him, and instead of feeding him sinking pellets im going to stick with the floating pellets...
i have not tried your trick of soaking the pellets in garlic before feeding, but that sounds like a really good trick and i will try that... i will stop posting on this thread as soon as bubba is in a routine with his staple diet...
thanks so much for following up on this, i really appreciate it, it's great finding people with similiar interests, and great experience who can help you out