UPDATES:
19th day of cycling, 18th day of checking levels:
Okay, so I still have not been adding flakes since the last time it was high. I checked the levels again today and Ammonia went back up high to 8ppm and the nitrites went up to 5ppm. Is this what they called the "spiking" time and then once it does, it will go back down after? If it isn't, then I am really very confused as to what I am doing wrong.
So I don't know if I did the right thing, but I decided to do a 55% PWC to at least lower the ammonia and I will do another level check tomorrow. I am really hoping it is down by then. I don't want my plants in there to die. :-(