thanks everyone, but everything is fine now, we realised that he didnt want to move until the lights were out, but we lost our cleaner shrimp, our two brown clowns thought he would make a nice meal. but yes, we set it up a few days ago, and we did ask our 'fish shop' if we can add fish now or in a few days or weeks and they said that the damsels were quite hardy, which turns out that they are, and they had said that the anemone and cleaner shrimp will be ok too.
We know a bit but we dont know THAT much about the marine as we are lerning a lot more on our way.
As my parnter does all the testings I am not sure what they are, but when he comes home I will ask him to add this (as he is at work) but he did say that everything is correct, the salinity is correct, we check this every day, as we do everything else.
When we wish to get more fish we plan to move them into our 3 foot tank. can anyone recommend any fish that would go well with the ones we have?