So much for my luck with the females. I came home from work on Friday to find my female standing in one spot and laboring to breath. I knew something was wrong when she didn't come out to greet me as she and the male usually do. I watched her for a while, added some Melafix to the tank but I knew, if only from past experiences, that once the females start appearing stressed and sick, it's only a matter of time. On the advice from a friend who breeds females, I even added some Aquarium Salt to the tank knowing that it might destroy my plants, that's how much I wanted to save her.
Woke up yesterday morning to find her lying on the bottom, dead. The male appeared very stressed, swiming back and forth at a very fast pace and then going over to her and trying to wake her up. I felt so bad for him. I immediately did a 70% water change to get the salt out of there. Then I added my other female ram who was in my 10 gallon tank with another male. This male has a torn gil plate and is very thin, but he's been hanging in there for a long time now and seems to be healthy in every other way. He will not spawn with the female though, not sure why, they did once and that was it. The female kept chasing him but he would just run.
Once I put the female in the 29 gallon, her and the male paired up right away and the male appeared to be very happy. They now look like they're getting ready to spawn soon, looking for a place and cleaning the subtrate. Another tip is when I put my hand in the tank, the male tries to bite it, which tells me he want's me to leave things alone. He only does this when there's either eggs in the tank, or they've got a place ready.
Now I need to find a companion for the male in the 10 gallon, he's so thin, even though he eats very well. I would really like to know why the females are so sensitive and seem to die for no reason at all, very strange.