They are DEFINATELY male and female. I have put two caves in now, when she goes in his cave he shoos her out... But now he's starting chasing her.. He basically just stays in his cave most of the time but only comes out when she comes in.
She is rather large although smaller than him. What do u mean by bloated?? As in how do I know?? And what does it mean if she is???
He is showing some nice colours too and last night she was shimmying in front of him and they were chasing each other around the cave ...
I just don't know!!!
I finally had platy fry too!! Was so exciting .. She still has quite a dark gravid patch though...