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I would also only suggest smaller anemone species for a 20 gal tank. BTA, condylactis or a beaded. I would not suggest many of the hosting species as they get too large and most will consume upto ½ or more of the living space in a small tank.
Also be sure the tank has had time (>1year) to properly establish a stable ecosystem before adding any anemone.