Gourami are best to keep at a 1 to 2 ratio male /female same species and in ODD numbers. They don't keep harems, but females are easier going and two or more split his aggressive attentions. Many nippers and semi aggresives are best kept in odd numbers. It splits the attention and if there are 3-5 it keeps a super omega from developing.
Many here have founds flags to be a pain in the pitootie when they kept them..
Gourami in general prefer a minimum of 78 to not fall ill. Since you just moved it from the group it should not pine for company too soon.
AS Stony mentioned, gourami are not always up top..if your big tank is a bit overstocked in a level, you'll see fish like gourami getting persnickety.
And at 4-5 inches each they take a big chunk of water bioload and tank real estate themselves (even if not full sized yet..they stake out areas that woulkd be suitable for their full sizes) . It is likely your larger tanks are a little overstocked too.
And the inch per gallon fish rule is loose rule of thumb. It doesn't apply to super messy fish like golds and oscars, or long lateral fish like bichers and Knives. It doesn't cover territorial adn aggressive fish. It really applies most to tetra-like fish and the once commonly kept guppies. Once fish start creeping over 3 inches in adult size they will need more than an inch per gallon.
But even with that in mind..google all your occupants adult sizes at fishbase esp. , and add the number to be surprised.
My 40 is waAaay overstocked and looks empty except a single betta patrolling the perimeter and the cories scootin around, but my kids move this summer to 170 gallons.
I only have 24 fish, mostly tetras. However, the 3 clown loaches alone equals an eventual 32 inches of fish. and they have gone from being a combined 7 inches to double that since Jan. They were all in an 18 to start (sans betta and cories)and I overchose tetras by a few extra thinking the knife would snack some when I wasn't looking. Slacker..he only eats from my hand.
Anyway, chances are high now that your fish that you have owned at least 4 months or more, are maturing you prolly have some fish you need to trade out (or get another large tank...
MTS man,
MTS)