I am new to mouth brooders and am reading a lot of conflicting information. I have a young female who is holding her first brood and I am unsure when or if I should strip (force her to release). This is her first time and she is very young, about 2.5" I don't know how long she has been holding and only notices about a week ago, two days ago it became clear the most or all of her eggs have hatched. She has been moved to a small tank and she is yet to release her young. I am concerned about her for a few reason for one her colour has faded quite a bit and her gills are very red and she is flaring them. She is still very young and small, one of the smaller females I have and I know that they do get quite thin when holding which she is. What I would like to know is it better to let her continue holding her young and if so foe how much longer or if I would be safer to strip her. Any advice from someone with experience would be appreciated.