Honestly, it probably depends on who you talk to as to whether you could add anymore fish period to your 65g with 4 goldfish already in the tank.
As you know, kissing Gourami can get large. Will it get between 10-12 inches? I don't know. Some of them only reach 5-6 inches. I think if you added him your tank would be overstocked.
If you were going to put a tropical fish with a goldfish id say your kissing Gourami would be pretty compatible as far as recommended temperature. You could keep your tank at 73 degrees and be fine for the Gourami and goldfish. Recently, there's discussion on here of goldfish keepers keeping them at higher temps of 75 and 76 without issues. The kissing Gourami is also a fairly peaceful Gourami especially by itself so that is also a plus for your situation.
Idk what you run for filtration on the tank but I would add another filtration system if you add the gourami. Maybe even an air driven sponge filter for up to 75 gallons. Either way you will add to the biological system of your tank to better handle the bioload of an overstocked tank. I'd also advise to do weekly 50% water changes. Test your water every few days and see where the water parameters are at.
I know your current situation so if it were me I'd probably try adding the Gourami with the goldfish while they are young and keep an eye on thier behavior and your water conditions as you go. At any sign of aggression or unmanageable water quality, I'd pull the Gourami out of the tank and donate it to an
LFS or sell it.
Just my 2 cents. Let us know what you do.