Several issues here. First, actinic lights aren't moonlighting. You are basically ensuring the sun never sets. You should run those lights all at the same time to get close to the lighting you need to support an anemone. I wouldn't personally try to keep an anemone under less than 6 t5ho bulbs.
Secondly, anemone shouldn't move around if they are happy. Whoever told you condys move around alot is t very informed on what they do. Anemone move until they find a beneficial spot for them. It becomes difficult at times because they don't have a brain, so they can find a nice spot totally in the shade and kill themselves without even knowing it.
Condy are more available than other anemone and cheaper because of that. They come from the Caribbean. They aren't any more hardy than the rest though. They need near perfect parameters along with high lighting. The phosphates could be an issue. Started typing this on my phone and can't refer back to other parameters, but the .25 phosphate is considered high for sensitive creature like an anemone.
Trying not to sound like a Debbie downer, but anemones can be a struggle even with proper conditions at times. I had a gbta and Rbta in my reef. The Rbta did great while the gbta just never came around. Trades him off and is doing well in a friends tank. Hit or miss sometimes as well. Hope the info helps, feel free to ask any questions and ill help out as much as I can.