Help with identifying what sex Ram is.

[MeganLois]

Hi there,

Now that the conditions of the tank are where they should be, we are trying to find a buddy for our golden ram. We know that he is a male, but I need help identifying the new ram.

My self and the fish keeper at the store felt that the one I selected was a female however it doesn't seem like they are getting on...

Any ideas on what you guys think the sex might be? would also appreciate any advice on what to do if it is a male...

https://youtu.be/K1x83o1R5W0

https://youtu.be/QBeQkOcQVRQ

Thanks,

Megan