My best friend just came over and gave me a Valentine's Day present...I don't why, since we're just friends, and it was a very nice thought, but she got me a red betta in a small vase I don't know what to do! I can't put it in my 36 gal because my gouramis will probably eat it up (or vice versa). Do you think I should give it a try to see how they get along? I really don't want to do these daily/every other day water changes, and poor betta...it must be like 40 ounces of water...