There is a book, the Simple Guide to Freshwater Aquariums, by Boruchowitz. It's on amazon as an ebook even. It has many good stocking schemes for a 29.
Nobody is trying to be mean. But when you try to join a group and ask people to give you some of their time, it goes a long way to communicate in a similar manner as everyone else and to respect the efforts people put in.
People get more help here when they come and say, "I've been researching this idea, and here's what I know, and these are my remaining questions." Your posts seem more like you put up every question that popped into your head. It's great that you're excited but it's just too much to keep up with.
And when you post question after question after question it just fills up the inbox of everyone who subscribed trying to help you. You might not have known that or that it's annoying to some people.
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