activated carbon cannot be "reused"
it can be rinsed, which may extend it's life, nocking off larger pieces of debris, allowing the carbon to continue working, but there is a point at which this will no longer work as well.
activated carbon cleans your water through complex chemical interactions between charged ions in the carbon attracting charged ions that are dissolved organic and inorganic compounds (such as fish waste and iron oxide)
these bonds, once formed, are not easily broken, except when the bonds are exchanged for more "active" compounds such as those in medicine.
the only other way to break the bonds is by instilling the carbon with termendous energy in the form of heat (well over 800F) in a high pressure steam atmosphere.
if you're using carbon in your aquarium, and you want to continue using it, you must by fresh carbon. Buy it in the bulk canisters, it is not too expensive that way. It is jiust another expense that must be accepted... cutting corners trying to reuse old carbon is dangerous - you could release large amounts of bad 'stuff' into your water trying to use carbon that has been used once already.