I hope you can successfuly keep it for a long time. I had yet to see anyone keep that anemone in their tank over 5 months. I had 1 before and lost it after 4 months, it looks great and everything but suddenly one day just melted. I had no clude what happen. but please don't get discourage, I hope to see you get it done.
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EDIT: Please to over feed it, keep it about once a week is more than enough. It should get 80% of its food source from lighting.