How to tell when your fish has passed

[dragon14]

I hate to even be asking this question.

He was swimming around a lot last night.

I'm pretty sure my sweet Betta is gone. He was lying on the bottom of the tank not moving for 15 mins. I unplugged the filter to see if the side to side swaying would stop and it did. No attempts at gulping in that time or since moving him to the cup.

I took him out and put him in a clean plastic cup with tank water. I'm 99.99% sure he's gone :'(

I'm very very sad, but also relieved that he's not sick and suffering any longer. I hated seeing him suffer. It was horrible.

I want to bury him but I don't want to yet in case theres a chance he's alive still. It's been about 45 minutes now since he went to the bottom. How do you know for certain when a fish has died?

 

[dragon14]

It's been about an hour now. I'm sure he's gone

I'm thankful he's not suffering anymore though.

 

[shellyx]

Sorry for your loss if he doesn't move when you touch him and his gills aren't moving then I would say he's passed.

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[dragon14]

Thank you so much.

I picked him up w a gloved hand. Nothing. Nothing when I netted him out of the big tank either.

 

[shellyx]

Really sorry, I find it's hard to lose a fish I'm such a softie! When my first betta died last year i cried!

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[dragon14]

Thank you.

I've done some crying over the last 5 days. I bawled today for a bit.

I love him so much.

They're our little finned friends. It's ok to cry and feel sadness.

 

[shellyx]

They're so personable, I really miss not having a betta.
At least your little guy was loved and cared for

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[SuomiBetta]

Really sorry, I find it's hard to lose a fish I'm such a softie! When my first betta died last year i cried!

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I lost a whole community tank. Sobbed until I couldn't talk. I hear you. Heck, reading this is making me tear up! I'm a big soft, overanxious fish mom

 

[shellyx]

I lost a whole community tank. Sobbed until I couldn't talk. I hear you. Heck, reading this is making me tear up! I'm a big soft, overanxious fish mom

That would've been heart breaking, I'm bad enough when one passes never mind a whole community! That's sad.

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[SuomiBetta]

That would've been heart breaking, I'm bad enough when one passes never mind a whole community! That's sad.

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It was. My poor bf had to hold me.

 

[shellyx]

It was. My poor bf had to hold me.

Ahh that's sweet my hubby is the same

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[pip walters]

One surefire way to tell if a fish is no more is to hold it out of the water and check the eyes. A live fish will always look down with at least one eye (always both eyes in a healthy fish). A dead fish's eyes will remain central and stare out.

Sorry you lost your fish. It is a shame betta are short lived.

 

[fishliker]

So sorry.


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[dragon14]

They're so personable, I really miss not having a betta.
At least your little guy was loved and cared for

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They are.

He was. Very much so

 

[dragon14]

I lost a whole community tank. Sobbed until I couldn't talk. I hear you. Heck, reading this is making me tear up! I'm a big soft, overanxious fish mom

I'm sorry . That's awful.

 

[dragon14]

One surefire way to tell if a fish is no more is to hold it out of the water and check the eyes. A live fish will always look down with at least one eye (always both eyes in a healthy fish). A dead fish's eyes will remain central and stare out.

Sorry you lost your fish. It is a shame betta are short lived.

Thanks.

 

[dragon14]

So sorry.


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Thank you

 

[MonkeyMonk86]

((( hugs )))


(Friend of Bill W., One day at a time)

 

[dragon14]

((( hugs )))


(Friend of Bill W., One day at a time)

Thank you . I needed that.

**hugs**

 

[SuomiBetta]

Thank you . I needed that.

**hugs**

*hug*

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