i am really really confused about how in the world the nitrogen cycle works cause when you look online everything tells you to put fish in first but other things say you have made a mistake if you have done that, i don’t understand how the good bacteria ends up there does it just grow itself or do i have to add it, i have already established tanks that have been running for ages and have fish who are years old in them yet i have never meant to a tank cycle i didn’t even know it was a thing i am asking now as i am getting a bigger tank and want to know how you do it. Is it possible my other tanks cycled themselves without me knowing? i regularly change the water and do regular water tests and everything is in the right range when i do i feed a variety of foods to my fish and remove any uneaten food i can. there’s just a lot of unanswered stuff i’m unsure what to look at online cause nothing is clear and everything says different stuff.