Thank you so much all. You did help a lot for sure. Everytime I go in my room I look at where her tank was and get tears in my eyes. I think I'll wait a bit before getting another fish. I am not sure what to get anyway because I do not want to get a fish that gets huge either. I also packed away the 30 gal and am going to set up a 10 gal I think. thanks so much!!