I guess this is more a rant then a thread but is it just me or does it seem more and more people are joining this site and pretty much refusing any constructive critisizm or helpful advice..If your willing to take the time to find and join this site why not listen to what the members say? I mean for the most part you have very experienced aquarists on here some with decades and decades of fish keeping (sorry if I made you feel old lol..) but to wrap this up I just want people to realize we don't gain anything by getting on here and trying to help its just that we want to help so please stop getting upset when you here you've made a mistake and people try to tell you how to fix it