Ohhh, dear Kelly...., I so wish I could help you. Know exactly the anxiety you are having right now having gone through this myself. No one tells you how much work and knowledge is involved in this hobby when you first get into it... Then being the type of person you are (maybe little on perfectionist side?) and loving your fish, you drive yourself crazy being tossed between totally opposite opinions.... And there you are! With your poor fish! Not knowing what to do! Kelly I myself fell victim to same circumstance few months ago and been sifting through masses of information myself trying to make some sense out of it. Unfortunately there seem to be as many opinions are there are people out there and I've decided to take some of those with a grain of salt. I have no experience with angels at all. The only think I can say I KNOW through research and own work is Bettas, Platties, Mollies, ghost shrimp, snails (very limited) and live plants. I wish I could help you more but I can always be your "sounding board" in the things I do know. Water changes is what I've been doing (twice daily on my tanks that went into mini cycle), right or wrong.... Not sure. What I do know is immediately after wc ammonia and nitrites do go down so the fish get the relief. One of my tanks is back to normal, the other one almost there, and the 3rd slowly getting there (nitrates start showing up). So I do believe in water changes, driftwood, live plants, good food for the fish, but let me say something else, Kelly it is very obvious that you care about your fish very much. You know them better than anyone, and even-though you may still feel lost at times at this apprenticeship phase of this hobby... sometimes you need to trust your instinct. With all the work and time that you've been putting into it, plus love for your fish.... you simply can't go wrong! Sometimes things happen that we have no control over, but you should always know that you have done your absolutely BEST. I probably didn't answer your question, but I'll go back to it and read it over and whatever left will address in another post. Hang in there, Kelly?