Don't give up on all cichlids! There are many that are common, peaceful, small and colorful. I have housed many of these wonderful fish since they fit my desire to have only small, peaceful, colorful fish in my 50 gal. The only downside is now I wish I didn't have large cichlids in the 80 gal and I would fill that with 2-3 inch fish I have no doubt that you will find a cichlid or two to fit your life style.I am now moving on to the more common tropical fish....