What I've found:
"Generally speaking, the females are larger and more rounded in shape. The leading edge of the anal fin of the female runs parallel to the posterior vertical stripe (when the fish haven't had their colouration modified). Your best compromise is to look at the leading edge of the anal fin when fully extended. The male will be more "swept back" while the female is more vertical. The female's anal fin also tends to be more narrow than the males. Males tend to have broader anal and more pointed dorsal fins."
Caleb
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