Wy Renegade
Aquarium Advice Addict
Okay , but all the other fish will work ?
No, they won't work in the long run. You will have some initial success, maybe for several months to a year. Then as the fish begin to mature and start looking to establish territories, you will start to lose fish. Most commonly available adult Mbuna's are far too agressive for a 3' tank.
Also when you were told that 1- 3 would die, you were given missinformation. If you have a tank of the proper size and properly set-up, you should not lose any fish. African Mbuna are very hardy fish, they don't just die because. They die because people don't do the proper research and don't set-up their tank properly.
Its ok to ask people to not be rude ~ nothing wrong with that. That said however, as a fish owner, you have a responsibility to the fish you have chosen to keep and if you don't want people to be rude or get upset, you need to do your due dilegence and put some actual effort into researching your fish. If you fail to do so, people are going to start posting and telling you in no uncertain terms what you are doing wrong. By posting on a public forum, you have set yourself up for that criticism.