I don't think its fair or right to offer any criticism without at least making an attempt to extract more information. Ask a question or two before "lighting someone up". Its easy to just jump in with an inflammatory remark based on very little information. Its not up to me to draft a post from the perspective that I need to defend myself from opinion. I'm not looking to clash with anyone. I told you to "relax" because I could see that you were jumping to a conclusion. Maybe that wasn't the best response to your comment, but I'm definitely not looking to clash with anyone.
How is "slow way down" lighting someone up or inflammatory?
I can come off too matter of fact at times. Sorry for making assumptions and again, I am glad they were incorrect.