Did I get a male/female Gold Ram and Dwarf Gourami?

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My last question before I stop bugging you guys is I thought the female has a pink belly? Or does that come later?
 
My other worry is if you look in the last photo, the top fin on the fish slopes up in the back which I thought meant was a male. Neither have pink bellies either
 
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