pondmom
Aquarium Advice Freak
After all I have taught hubby about the aquarium, pond and fish...I thought he'd know better.....
Thursday he flew out to Seattle to visit his family. With him he took picture's of our set-up(120 gal koi tank)
They loved it. So they(his family) went out and bought a 75gal bow front with stand.
He had called me on the cell and had asked me a few questions.
My last words to him were "DON"T BUY ANY FISH"!! I won't he said.
So a few hours later I called him. He had just set the tank up, put in the gravel, filled it with water and installed the 2 filters.
He said they also had powerheads that he hooked up. No problem so far...
So I brought the kids to an all nighter at church.
Returned home and talked with him again.
He said a fish had gotten stuck in the powerhead so he unplugged it.
I said....."FISH" I thought you were gonna wait on the fish. Well we got 4 small fish. They should be fine(he says)
I was PISSED!! (I can't even type i'm so upset)
So now what about when they start feeding. What about the ammonia, the nitrites, the ph, the nitrates and so on.... This is all called the cycling process. It can take as few as 2 weeks and as many as 6 weeks. He said he added stress coat and something else. I told him that didn't matter.
They'll learn he said. I said WHEN!! They have NO test kit. They don't even know what to look for. "you can teach them he says" Ya right, 1800 miles away.
I know they will learn (later than sooner) but all I can think of is those poor fish. In a brand new set-up. And what upsets me the most.....
Is my husband knows!!! And he let his family buy fish the same day
Am I wrong?? Did I over react...
I had to vent.. & I do appreciate you listening