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The aggression difference has been debated on here multiple times and might very well be a myth. These electric blue hack dempseys have an incredibly low survival rate, so its rare to see them beyond a few inches and see how their aggression develops with size.
Good luck. Most EBJD owners I know have sworn them off forever.