We are on your side here. Some of us may not be putting things tactfully as they should, but the point I think we are trying to get across is that the underlying problem with the illnesses you are seeing is the crowding that is going on. Have you gotten your water tested yet? I'm guessing if you have, your nitrates were probably high. With that many large fish, as well as a pleco which has a large bioload, it is hard to keep the nitrate levels down. My guess is the addition of another fish made them go up even more than normal, faster than normal, which stressed the fish out and led to them getting sick. Either the new fish was infected with something or there was something already in the tank that your fish had been successful at keeping at bay with their immune systems, but the stress of a new inhabitant in their territories and the rise in waste levels from another fish stressed them which lowers their immune systems.
I would love to be able to tell you which med to use, but I can't really do that without a picture of the fish. If any are looking a bit sick, snap a picture and post it. At the very least, try to give as detailed a description as you possibly have of the symptoms, then maybe we can narrow down what the illness is. However, as your fish grow, the problems will just add up. They will take up more space, have more waste, and some will get aggressive. Illness will break out more often. I know you are attached to your pets, but it is your responsibility as an aquarist to do what is best for them. Even if they are small now, they do get bigger, and stunting can begin long before the fish are looking uncomfortable in a small tank. You really should upgrade as soon as you can or find homes for some of the very large fish. If you were to get a 55 and keep the 29, you could split up the fish between them and keep all but maybe the ghost knife. I know this is hard news to take, no one wants to be told they are doing something the wrong way, and people getting over emotional and insulting you over a forum tends to make people a little defensive. I'm sorry, but to keep your fish healthy in the long run, you need to treat the cause and not just the symptoms.
Go get your water tested, get yourself a test kit, and describe the symptoms as well as you can. Pictures would be best. I wish you the best of luck with this.
Also, more details about the tank would help. What is your water change schedule, what is your filtration like?