Andy Sager
Aquarium Advice Addict
Using any calcium based stone ( i.e. crushed coral) will help increase alkalinity but with the driftwood in there, you will be fighting an ongoing battle as it will keep trying to soften the water and lower the PH. I'd remove the wood. There are cichlid salts for African Cichlids that help raise alkalinity but if you use them, only add them to the water you are adding into the tank after the water change so that the level rises gradually. ( i.e. If you add 10 gals, use the amount of salt for 10 gals to that 10 gals before adding that water back into the tank.)
Sounds like the gravel from the tank may have been too dirty which is why you are having nitrite and ammonia issues. Most likely, you had some BB die off during the move of the tank. I would suggest you stop using the other products and after the water changes, just use Seachem's PRIME. What that will do is detoxify the ammonia and nitrite ( follow the directions on the bottle for the dosage) so that even if present, they will not harm the fish. This way, the existing BB has a chance to catch up with the fish load. You might also want to cut back on the amount of food you are feeding until the bacteria bed gets better established.
As for the female showing more tube but the orange guy not, I've had 2 pairs recently do the same thing but when the female started laying, the males came in and did their jobs. So this may not mean anything yet in your case.
With all due respect, anyone guaranteeing the gender of a non bred fish without having any external showing of a breeding tube is a little full of themselves. It's just not a guaranteeable thing to say. There are many fish out there with gender defining characteristics on the wrong genders. I've seen it personally. So while he might be right, the odds are that that he's right, it sure looks like he will be right..... but I wouldn't "guarantee" that he's right. Just sayin' ..... On to the fertility test
Hope this helps
Sounds like the gravel from the tank may have been too dirty which is why you are having nitrite and ammonia issues. Most likely, you had some BB die off during the move of the tank. I would suggest you stop using the other products and after the water changes, just use Seachem's PRIME. What that will do is detoxify the ammonia and nitrite ( follow the directions on the bottle for the dosage) so that even if present, they will not harm the fish. This way, the existing BB has a chance to catch up with the fish load. You might also want to cut back on the amount of food you are feeding until the bacteria bed gets better established.
As for the female showing more tube but the orange guy not, I've had 2 pairs recently do the same thing but when the female started laying, the males came in and did their jobs. So this may not mean anything yet in your case.
With all due respect, anyone guaranteeing the gender of a non bred fish without having any external showing of a breeding tube is a little full of themselves. It's just not a guaranteeable thing to say. There are many fish out there with gender defining characteristics on the wrong genders. I've seen it personally. So while he might be right, the odds are that that he's right, it sure looks like he will be right..... but I wouldn't "guarantee" that he's right. Just sayin' ..... On to the fertility test
Hope this helps