In most of the articles I have read about the De-Nitrators failing, it was due to lack of commitment to them by the owners. They tend to require care for one to continue working properly. From what I gather, the once thought method of keeping one that did not require feeding, failed due to it either working too good, and the bacteria dying because of lack of food source(no nitrate to feed on), or food supply to keep it fed when there is not nitrate for the bacteria to consume.
I haven't kept one for long due to the maintenance, and that is why I believe my first sentence to be true. I know I am not the only one.
I do however believe that if one had the time and the commitment level to keeping up a consistent maintenance (calibrating the amount of food to feed it, flow rate as to not be too fast or slow)schedule for the de-nitrator along with all the other maintenace schedules, one might keep one going for the life of the aquarium.