At least your husband makes an attempt to differentiate...my fiance just calles all mine 'the fish' or 'the fishes', or when I'm spending money to buy more, or buy alot of stuff for them, the '%$*( fishes'!
LOL When I got the statement from Wal-Mart that had an estimate on how much all the fish I'd bought there were worth, J's (my fiance) jaw dropped when he saw it 8O I told him there were fish lovers that had spent 10 times that amount on just ONE fish, so cheer up! It was only about $80, I don't think that's TOO bad. Of course, that's not including any of the goldfish; or tanks, accessories, meds, etc. But it STILL isn't TOO bad...YET
Wait'll he has to build the goldfish pond, THEN he can start gripin more
My bettas are easy to tell apart, especially all the males. Originally, I was trying to stay away from the bettas. Although they were beautiful, and always looked so pitiful sitting in those little plastic bowls, I thought they'd harm my other fish. Then I found out that you CAN put them in a tropical tank, as long as you monitor them and they don't get aggressive with the other fish. It was going so successfully too, at first.
Dragon (my first male betta that was given to me by a friend) was a deep blue color, and he was GORGEOUS! He had a crimson flare. I hated him being the only betta in there, so I got him a mate, Scarlett. Scarlett's body looks to be a brown color, and her fins are red with some light, frosted blue highlighting.
After I'd had those two for about a month, I'd been watching for an all white male betta. I'd seen them before and thought they were beautiful. I ended up finding these two whose coloring looked like stonewashed jeans. Well, they weren't all white, and I really didn't have the money at the time, so I left them. The next two times I went back, they were still there. The third time I went back, they were the only two left, and they were definately being left unattended, and in poor conditions. Of course, I had to take them home at that point! I'd even bought bottled water for them, which J had to razz me about
(He doesn't get that you can't just throw water in there, straight from the tap
) It ended up being a lifesaver though, because there was another store I had to stop at on the way home, and I'd been able to see the one betta in his bowl from Wal-Mart to the next store, but I couldn't see the other betta, and decided to check before I went in, and his bowl had tipped, there had been just enough water for him to keep his face in, so I quickly dumped the bottled water in there. I kept him, his name's Levi, and the other like him I gave to my friend that had given me Dragon. She had also gotten two bettas, and given me one, but hers had died.
I was determined not to get anymore bettas though, because I was running out of things to put them in, and I didn't like seeing them in those tiny bowls. Keep in mind that I'd only seen bettas in very small bowls til then. Anyone I knew who'd ever had one had kept them in those teeny tiny betta bowls that you can get at Wal-Mart for about 3 or 4 bucks, you know, the ones that only hold about a cup and a half to two cups of water?
Then Dragon died on me quickly. His fins rotted almost completely off overnight one night, and I took him out of the big tank and tried to nurse him back to health, but he ended up dying on me within a couple days.
I got Hannibal, a/
k/a The Red Dragon, a/
k/a Blue Eyes, Red Dragon (like Yugi-Oh's Blue Eyes, White Dragon...kids idea
) I thought Scarlett might like having a mate that was more her color...don't ask where I got that logic, maybe it was just an excuse to get him, he was pretty
Then, within a couple weeks, I saw one that had a lavender colored body, but his fins were tri-colored, going from a deep maroon, to a purple, and then back to lavender at the tips. He looks like a flower when he flares up
I named him Prince.
The following week, I saw another one that looked almost identical, but is an iridescent white color where Prince is lavender. I had to bring him home too, and his name is Falcore, after the dog/dragon looking thing in the movie 'The NeverEnding Story'. Within a couple weeks of getting Prince and Falcore, Hannibal started getting sick in the big tank, just like Dragon had. I had to pull him out too. I've been able to save him so far, and it seems like he's really perked up quite a bit since putting him in the little one gallon tank.
My theory when I started getting the female bettas was to make sure that the male bettas didn't get lonely. I knew I couldn't keep male bettas together, so I figured I'd get them female companions. (I didn't know what I know now, about how male and female bettas generally interact, Dragon and Scarlett had gotten along really well, it seemed) Scarlett and Hannibal seemed to get along pretty well too, usually, when they were in the big tank.
However, I tried to put Scarlett in the small tank with Hannibal, and at first it seemed so cute. He would nip at her tail a little, she even smacked him right in the face with her tail once, which had me rollin, but feeling so sorry for Hannibal! And when I'd go in there to watch them, he'd put himself between me and her, like he was in full alert protector mode. I thought that was really sweet, but within an hour or so, I noticed that those 'nips' at her tail were getting to be more like chomps, and her fins began looking ragged, so I immediately put her back in the big tank. I'd also gotten two other females, one was already in a bowl with one of the male bettas. She hid alot, but it didn't seem to be so bad til I noticed her fins were getting frayed too. Her name is Ursula, and she's smaller than Scarlett, and appears black, or dark grey until the light hits her and shows off her dark green highlights. She's pretty prickly with other fish, but doesn't get aggressive with them unless they get too close to her. Then she just nips at them enough to get them out of her space.
My other female, Marina, looks alot like Scarlett in her body, but her fins are a frosty, light blue color, with some crimson lining. Almost opposite the coloring of Scarlett's fins. When the light hits her, she's got a teal colored look to her. She's almost as big as Scarlett, and is catching up rather quickly. I'd never even tried to put her with any of the males, I'd gotten her right before I noticed how beaten up the other female bettas were getting, so now they're all three in the tropical tank. My first attempt to put Scarlett and Marina in a smaller tank together didn't go over well. Scarlett didn't seem to take to Marina at all, and got aggressive with her. Then I decided to put all three in the bigger tank, I'd figured that Marina and Ursula could handle Scarlett if they stuck together. Oddly enough, at first, in the bigger tank, Marina hung out by Scarlett most of the time, and Ursula just stayed to herself. I noticed that Marina would often go check on Ursula though. Now it seems that Marina has taken Ursula under her wing, and is hanging out with her most of the time.
Okay, those are the bettas, and I have yet to get to the tropicals...next time