McLumpy
Aquarium Advice FINatic
If not your own pond, with an underground viewing area
Now you're talking!
I totally agree with you, for me, working in my tank is a great stress reliever!
It's my time !! Don't take me wrong, I do enjoy a lot the family time, but I do enjoy this time for me!!!, and I forget about everything, when I'm cleaning, re-arranging, watching, etc my tank.
That's exactly how I view it. Of course, I'm also trying to teach my 3 y/o to help mommy w/ the tanks. It's cute too! I tell him about doing a pwc, feeding, etc. It brings a smile to my face whenever I catch him w/ his face pressed against the glass.